Support for Wives whose Husband is Addicted to Pornography

When Your Husband…

The news was hard enough– the person closest to you in the world, your life partner, is struggling with pornography. But now, although the shock might have worn off, you are still reeling–feeling shattered, betrayed, alone. Where do you turn? Who do you turn to?

From my own personal experience, I wan you to know, no matter how you are feeling right now, you are not alone. You can turn to the God of all comfort and hope who promises to never leave you or forsake you. Whether you are numb or you are riding a roller coaster of emotions ranging from anger to sadness to depression to guilt, if you fully enter into the grieving process and wade through the deep waters, you WILL eventually climb out on the other side. He is faithful.



Vicki has written When Your Husband Is Addicted To Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart, to help women combat the feelings of loneliness and despair. In this book, Vicki guides you through the process by focusing on six important topics: hope, surrender, trust, identity, brokenness, and forgiveness. Allowing God to meet your greatest needs is a long and learned process, but he promises to help you every step of the way.


The leader’s guide was written for pastors, counselors and those that are walking through this hard time with other women. Revised version coming Spring 2021.

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Not In My House- The Stats

As for thinking that this can’t happen in a Christian home, let’s talk about the facts, friend. The fact is pornography is readily available, it’s relatively anonymous, and it…

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I think from the time we are little girls until we die, we long to be irreplaceable in the eyes of those who love us most.

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Pornography = False Intimacy

Pornography is counterfeit on steroids. Unfortunately, it’s a very good counterfeit – masking itself as relationship,true intimacy…



Vicki’s Story


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Covenant Eyes.coms -Not only provides a filtering but internet accountability for individuals and families.

Harvest “Proclaiming Christ to a Sexually Broken World”– Harvest USA helps individuals to heal and equips churches to minister to individuals impacted by sexual sin. This website is full of resources, articles, podcasts, and a blog addressing issues related sexual sin.

XXX This is a multi platform ministry Not only committed to helping those addicted to pornography and sexual sin. On their website, XXX Church offers resources, articles, podcasts, and blogs for Men, Women, Wives, Teens, Parents, and the Sex Industry.




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BraveHearts offers private and confidential 1-on-1 mentoring and group mentoring services to men who struggle with habitual sexual sin. They also train and equip men and women who have emerged from recovery and developed a strong track record of sexual integrity to become Certified BraveHearts Mentors. In addition, BraveHearts offers Mentor365, a low cost, online, year round virtual mentoring program as a round-the-clock tool for those who struggle.

New Life Ministries Founded by Steve Arterburn, New LIfe offers the Every Man’s Battle Workshop where men engage in the battle to get back their sexual integrity. In this intensive three-day workshop, men work with licensed Christian counselors who arm them with the weapons they need for victory.

Pure Desire Ministries Founded by Dr. Ted Roberts, Pure Desire aims to educate and mobilize church leaders to facilitate hope and freedom from sexual addiction, through the development of healing ministries. Pure Desire Ministries International also provides a task-centered treatment model for singles and married couples, delivered within the framework of sound biblical principles.

Be This website offers education, support, hope, and healing to the sexually broken and their wives.

Sex Patrick Carnes’s website offers online tests for spouses of sexual addicts and other resources.